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Losing Games, Learning and Thinking
Dick Devenzio, founder of the Original Point Guard College
No one is quite sure about how a player is supposed to act after a loss. It doesnít seem necessary to cry for a week, especially since you are likely to have another game within that time. Yet, it doesnít seem quite right to walk off the court laughing either. Naturally, some losses will be more bothersome than others, and, just as naturally, every player will lose sometimes. Therefore, it seems intelligent to prepare a response in advance for those unhappy times when the inevitable happens, you lose.
First, after you lose, you should think. Thinking should keep you from laughing and probably from crying as well. Neither laughing nor crying is likely to help you much for next time, but thinking is always valuable. Did you give your best physical effort? Were you fully tuned into the game mentally? What things could you have done better? How could you have prevented the loss? What would you do differently if you had it to do over? What did the other team do to confuse you or to make it difficult? Can you use that on someone else in the next game?
There are a lot of questions to ask yourself, and those should come in place of the more common comments like ďThe referees were terrible,Ē ďThe coach was stupid,Ē or ďIf only Jones hadnít tried that stupid shot.Ē
No one loses a game singlehandedly. There are unfortunate circumstances when a player misses a shot at the end with his team a point behind, or he travels with the ball or kicks it out of bounds. People may say he lost it. But he didnít. you lost it with that one turnover at the beginning, that bad pass, or that failure to talk on defense in the first half that gave the other team an easy basket.
Second, get out of the habit of blaming referees and coaches and others, and think. Donít decide until the next day what your verdict is. A lot of times, with emotions high after a big game, things get said that arenít meant and arenít true. But, mixed in with disappointment, anger and fatigue, it is easy to say things that wonít seem so intelligent the next morning.
Third, get in the habit of saying you arenít sure what happened or why you lost. Say you need time to think about the game. And then do that. Think about it. Go back over every play, everything you can rememberónot forever, not even for a week, but certainly on your way off the court, in the locker room, on the bus home, and that night in bed. That ought to be enough.
Then, there should be some jokes in the morning that will be funny again, and it will be time to be getting ready to win the next one, to encourage others and to go on living. Itís only after the game you should think about it. Think so much that there isnít time to laugh or cry.
If you donít think about it when it is fresh in your mind, it is difficult to believe that you really want to be a good player.
Good players think. Especially after a loss. Thatís how they learn not to lose very often.
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